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Hey, I just wanted to give a little advice to all of you younger or even older than 17....
Don't let being desperate for something or someone take control of you. Simply put, it'll probably be one of the worst mistakes of your life. Well, I did just that. I got desperate because a guy rejected me a few times. Next thing you know, I'm with some guy like 3 or 4 years older than me a thousand or so miles away. I was so delusional that I wasted 3 years of my teenage life with him. And now I'm coming to the conclusion that he's lied to me about pretty much everything. Unfortunetly that was my very first boyfriend and now I wish that I hadn't been so damn naive.
I've learned my lesson though, so to all of you that think you NEED somebody and theres nobody in you town/city that you're interested in or if you have been rejected or are afraid you'll get rejected by somebody you like...DO NOT consider a long distance relationship because there are more cons then pros to that situation.

If you don't agree with anything I have said, then let me know your opinion.
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CaniLupine Featured By Owner Apr 13, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
I've been in long-distance relationships... The only way they can work is if you can actually see the other regularly.
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NightFurry14 Featured By Owner Apr 14, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
So, essentially, they cant work.
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CaniLupine Featured By Owner Apr 14, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
They can, it's just hard. If they start out as long distance and end up in person, then it's okay.
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NightFurry14 Featured By Owner Apr 14, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Well, for teenagers, it doesn't work out
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CaniLupine Featured By Owner Apr 14, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
Agreed.
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DeonXela Featured By Owner Apr 13, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Almost exactly what happened to me.
Except, you know, with a girl instead of a guy.
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NightFurry14 Featured By Owner Apr 14, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
What was your experience?
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DeonXela Featured By Owner Apr 14, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I loved her, she loved me.
We were a perfect couple, along with both of us being remarkably intelligent and caring people.
But because of how much we cared, we got so obsessed over seeing each-other, and through our need of someone that understood us...We got scared of all our work leading to us being alone that we lost ourselves.
Our morals, our values, our past experiences, our friends, our families, our future, our sanity...It didn't matter, we were willing to give anything to see each-other. We threw it away for sake of us.

We would give anything --anything-- even if it killed us.
Even if we could only see each-other for a few minutes.

It made us crazy, and we turned into vile--Evil people.
After a long time we finally turned on each-other, fighting against ourselves for the same cause, and we eventually saw how ugly we became...And decided it was time to move on.
We both made the choice that Love wasn't worth it.
We struggled and fought all the way, not wanting to let go...
Not ever wanting to lose the other person.

Over the course of three years, for the sake of desire...We've hurt everyone we know and lost many things.
And we can never go back to the innocent children we were when we met. We can't feign it, we can't hide it, as much as we still try.

Now all we can do is forget each-other and try to be happy regardless of love.
And that is what we've set out to do.
Separate instead of coming to hate the other person just as much as we love them.
We don't want to be lied to, We don't want to pretend to not be bothered, we don't want to marry if we can't look each-other in the eye for the things we've done.
We can't be forgiven, and we can't forgive ourselves.

I haven't talked to her for what feels like forever ago now, but I still think about her every single day.
And the thing that sucks the most...is that now I'm finally old enough to have the power to see her...And I can't bring myself to try anymore.
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NightFurry14 Featured By Owner Apr 15, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Wow...that...I'm not even sure what to say to that...

But what kind of bothers me some is that...my ex, Im not even sure he told me the truth half the time, and then he turns gay while still with me and tells me "Well i still like girls. I still love you" Worst of all, there was false trust. I was so young and so stupidly naive that i believed practically everything he told me. I broke up with him once before but then got back together with him two days later out of pity for him and the belief that I still "loved" him.
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DeonXela Featured By Owner Apr 15, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
My ex fiance found someone to replace me before we had fully stopped seeing eachother.
It was like every time she told me she loved me she was lying, like she was just using me and every other person she knew just to make herself feel better.
And it wasn't just me that saw it, all of her friends have started to ask themselves if that's what she's really like.
The guy she's replaced me with is her only friend now.
She's almost completely alone, and he is her only hope for a normal life.

The thing that hurts me the most, is how much I want him to end up hurting her. How I want him to break her little heart into dust and destroy her from the inside out.
How much I want her to feel sorry and alone, just like she's made me feel.
And how I want to help pick herself up from the dust after she learns her lesson.

She has but a single hope left, and I can't wait until she abandons that too.
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